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Porn Kills Marriages
Porn is a gateway to divorce. It changes the husband, emotionally wounds the wife, and breaks the ties of marriage.
Is your marriage in trouble?
The research is clear.
- 1Porn weakens commitment. Several studies concluded that pornography weakens commitment to the partner. It replaces sexual thoughts and energies for wives with those of porn actors. Porn is a gateway to divorce.
- 2Porn is a destructive addiction. When men watch porn, they behave similarly to men with heroin addiction. The cravings. The need-shame cycle. The lack of control. Like heroin, porn puts men in a serious state of conflict.
- 3Porn leads to erectile dysfunction (ED). Doctors find that the compulsive nature of porn leads to erectile dysfunction (ED). The over-stimulation creates changes in the brain, making husbands less responsive to the physical pleasures
of his wife. Porn damages men emotionally AND physically. - 4Wives feel betrayed. Anger and mistrust are words often used by wives when they discover their husband watches porn. She feels insecure, less self-esteem, and emotional & physical pain. Wives are emotionally wounded.
- 5Wives experience PTSD. Almost 70% of wives facing such emotional betrayal display the characteristics of post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). These include nightmares, obsessive thinking, fear, worry, depression, and trouble sleeping. Wives require emotional recovery.
"He Promised to Stop!"
"I lost my husband, my kids lost the man they call dad. My family will never be the same. My marriage is over. Porn killed it. Because he chose porn. Tonight, I held my daughters as they sobbed so hard they could barely breathe. Crying out inaudible words mixed with some really raw ones. 'He promised to stop, he said we were worth fighting for, my dad is gone, he’s just gone,' they cried." - Fight the New Drug
Why Common treatments don't work
Many men silently live with it as a secret, trying over and over again to stop. Relapse is common with porn addiction. There are three conventional treatments.
- 1The most common advice men get is "just stop." Quit cold-turkey. Unfortunately such advice does not work because of the complexity of porn addiction. The brain chemicals and neural pathways are often too challenging to stop by oneself.
- 2Another common approach to quit porn is to think about something different when an urge or trigger is felt. Such advice is misleading and futile. The nature of porn compulsion is that once it reaches conscious thought, it is too late to stop.
- 3Finally, most programs fail because they do not address the root cause of the problem. Porn is not the problem. Porn is a symptom of the problem. Whether a 12-step program, counseling, pastors, meditation, accountability programs, or web filters, none of these methods or programs resolve the root cause problem.
In Marriage, Porn is Really THREE problems, not Just One
Even after the discovery and common treatment for porn, many marriages still fail. All the problems are not addressed. The reality is - PORN is THREE problems, not just one. Unless all 3 problems are addressed, the marriage remains in trouble.
The 3 problems
- 1The Husband's Addiction - The husband needs treatment for his addiction. There are triggers and urges he must learn how to handle. He also needs to train his brain to develop new neural pathways that link love and intimacy to his wife. BOTH must be achieved for long-term success.
- 2The Wife's Emotional Wounds - Wives are emotionally injured. Almost 70% of wives facing a husband's porn addiction experience characteristics of PTSD. Her emotional wounds require healing. The right specialist has the tools and techniques to empower a wife to heal.
- 3The Marriage - Porn crushes the foundation of marriage. There is often little trust. There are too many secrets. Your marriage needs renewal. BOTH husband and wife need to work together to see a new and brighter future together, with honesty and a vision for a happy future together.
"Thousands of Dollars"
"My husband, the sweet guy who made me weak in the knees, would come back when the porn left. But the porn kept coming back, each time things would get worse rapidly. Thousands of dollars and countless hours on therapy and support groups, and this pattern of clean for a few months followed by a relapse lasting twice as long, for years." - Fight the New Drug
For Wives
You may feel loss, shame, anger, pain, and betrayal. Your husband is looking at pictures and videos of other women. Emotionally, he's not connecting with you.
Your emotions are all over the place. You can go from depression to rage quickly. As a result, the smallest things can trigger deep pain and emotional outbursts.
"How can he do this to me?" "Why am I not enough?"
His behavior is affecting you physically. Maybe you're not eating regularly. You swing from binge eating to hardly eating at all. You may even feel physical pain at the thought of him watching porn, perhaps a burning sensation on your hands.
These feelings and emotions are natural. It's OK to feel what you're feeling, as long as they are temporary.
Your life is currently in turmoil. You didn’t ask for any of this. The hard reality is your husband has a dangerous addiction. It threatens himself, your marriage, and your happiness. He has a hard time controlling his actions.
Your husband needs your help. He cannot recover by himself. He needs your understanding and encouragement. Your strength, standing by him and supporting him, along with the right outside expert, can help him break free from his addiction.
However, this isn’t just about him. You are in pain. The man you love hurt you deeply. Just as he needs to break free from his addiction, you also need healing. An outside expert specializing in porn addiction in marriage can help you.
This expert can help you understand your negative feelings and turn them into empowering forces.
You may not have thought of it this way, but his addiction can be a blessing in disguise. It gives you a chance to redesign your marriage.
When you and your husband get expert help individually, you can also renew your marriage together. Imagine the possibilities! You can reignite your love with consistent, loving behaviors that strengthen your love for each other.
All of this is possible with the right outside specialist and training. A qualified coach can work with you so you can heal, and together, so the marriage can heal. The good news is both are available right now!
For Husbands
It's not uncommon for men to have watched porn for many years. Many married men keep it a secret. Some don't even remember when they started.
Some men report looking at porn as an escape from sexual abuse when a child. For others, it was a teenage right of passage to sneak a peek at Playboy. Others have recently started as a coping mechanism for a stressful life situation.
No matter how it started or when, it is harming your marriage.
You may have tried quitting many times. It just doesn’t seem to work. No matter what you do, you find yourself drawn back into it.
Inside you carry a severe conflict. You love your wife, but you're hurting her. You tell yourself your feelings for her haven't changed.
However, the reality is different.
Porn has changed you. It weakens your commitment to your wife. It trains you to treat women as objects. Porn also changes men emotionally and physically, giving many men Erectile Dysfunction (ED).
The truth is you're hurting your wife more than you know. She senses the weakened commitment. She feels you look at her as an object. Lovemaking is about sex, not intimacy anymore. She knows you changed.
Porn is a form of emotional cheating. Your actions cause your wife great emotional pain.
- You are physically treating her differently than in the past
- You give her immense stress
- Your actions create in her thoughts of betrayal, insecurity, and doubt about the marriage
You need to understand - Porn is a gateway to divorce. It's a primary reason cited in 56% of divorces. Your addiction has put your marriage in jeopardy.
You have to do more than try to stop. It is time to decide to succeed; To break free once and for all.
Despite the challenges you face and the pain the addiction causes your wife, there's good news!
You can be free from porn. You can mend the relationship with your wife. You can have a marriage with respect and admiration again.
It’s a matter of getting the right outside expert, a qualified coach specializing in this specific kind of training.
When you start this program, with the right certified coach, you learn how to reject the inevitable urges and triggers that may have caused lapses in the past.
Finally, there is a program with a supporting coach available to you right now!
How to Break Free From Porn
You can participate in an all-new program developed by Mark Jala. It is a game changer in how porn addiction in marriage is treated. Mr. Jala's program is based on the actual science and gets to the root problems behind porn addiction, marriage recovery, and emotional recovery.
This program counters the failures of today's common treatment methods. To completely eliminate porn, renew the marriage, and emotionally heal, requires a triple-track approach, Breaking Free, Reignite the Love, and Emotional Healing. This is the most comprehensive program available for long-term success.
The Triple-Track Approach
This unique and effective program is designed to address the specific needs of porn addiction in marriage. It addresses the special needs of the husband, wife, and marriage. Here are the 3 tracks:
Emotional Healing
Track #1 - Discover "Deep Healing and Empowerment." In these three (3) one-on-one sessions with just the wife, we uncover what is really important to you, discover limiting belief systems, and develop new and empowering beliefs that manifest healing, love and real intimacy. In these sessions we uncover healthy ways you can help your husband while he breaks free. Experience a deep healing that allows you to forgive your husband, and develop a strong identity based on emotional safety, trust, and certainty.
Breaking Free
Track #2 - Breaking Free From Porn. This is a comprehensive 3-part program. First, we limit availability to porn. Second, we complete a proven 6-step process that changes your perception of porn. In one-on-one sessions with just the husband, you will learn “Subconscious Rejection,” a technique to reprogram your perception of porn to reject it before it becomes a conscious thought. Third, we assure long-term success with 6 additional months of accountability support. You will feel freedom, worthy of love, and able to handle the triggers that can cause relapse.
Reignite the Love
Track #3 - Reignite the Love. In these sessions with both husband and wife, we complete a 3-step process to rebuild the marriage. We focus on building a rock-solid marriage foundation, develop consistent daily rituals that promote mutual appreciation, and establish new behaviors for long-term marriage success. This master course gives you the skills to handle past and future marriage issues you haven't even experienced yet.
Meet the Specialist and Your Coach
You can completely eliminate porn in your marriage, heal emotionally from feelings of betrayal, and your marriage can be renewed stronger than ever. Hello, my name is Mark Jala. For almost 40 years I have been a problem solver in multiple fields. The skills I developed over the years can transform your marriage.
As a certified coach in Strategic Interventions I help couples get to the root cause of their marriage troubles. I blend the best features of life coaching, Strategic Interventions, and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy into a results-oriented coaching experience like no other.
More than 50% of couples I interact with report porn in their marriage. Porn is a gateway to divorce. It harms both partners. I had to do something about it.
Over the last 7 years I came to understand not just the complex problem of porn, but the failures of common treatments. Porn addiction creates 3 problems and all 3 problems must be addressed. I developed a new, innovative program that addresses all 3 parts of the problem.
I want you to experience the many benefits of this new program.
THAT is what this new program can do for you, your partner, and your marriage. I welcome you to Break Free today!
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Break Free from Porn and Reignite the Love in Your Marriage!
Why It's Time to Start Now
Mark only brings on 10 new clients each month. Since the Break Free from Porn program spans across 3 months, he is limited in how many clients he can serve. When you are ready to transform your marriage, Mark recommends that you Schedule a 1-Hour Strategy Call. It's just $45. Mark will call you at the scheduled time for a 1-Hour session.
What is Included in the Break Free From Porn Program
Eliminate porn and revitalize the intimacy in your marriage
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Breaking Free
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Reignite the Love
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Emotional Healing
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All Sessions Downloadable
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6 Months of Email Support